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favored technique is to debilitate your identity [personally, I hate the
term self-esteem] by levelling false accusations and/or questioning your
honesty, fidelity, trustworthiness, your “true” motivations, your “real”
character, your sanity and judgement.”
are absolutely the world’s best manipulators, liars, and fabricators of
truth. They do so convincingly because they believe their own lies. After
all their life is nothing but a lie, a sham, how can we possibly assume
they know anything different.”
around me would get so tired of the whole thing and insinuate that I was
perpetuating things. All I wanted was for him to leave me alone. Part
of the hurt and damage was done because others could but would not see
what was actually happening. He would always try to ingratiate himself
to others it was sickening. Usually psychopaths put on the nicest act,
and you look like the harpy and bitch, and so everyone takes their side,
it is a horror story, a psychopath can be very charming, and manipulative
and manipulate the smartest of people.”
biggest frustration and source of anger, is at those who have refused
to take a stand when they see the abuse . No matter how outrageous his
behavior others often stood by and inadvertently fuelled his grandiosity
and denial... although denial is too mild a word for it.
have finally come to the conclusion that they cannot change, so all we
can do is to refuse to participate in their sick drama and leave the stage.”
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Eight Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation
Emotional Manipulation is Also "Covert Aggression." See: "Psychopaths: Wolves in Sheep's Clothing"
Here is a list adapted from an article by Fiona McColl
- There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator. You make a statement and it will be turned around. Example: I am really
angry that you forgot my birthday. Response - "It makes me feel sad
that you would think I would forget your birthday, I should have told
you of the great personal stress I am facing at the moment - but you
see I didn’t want to trouble you. You are right I should have put all
this pain (don’t be surprised to see real tears at this point) aside
and focused on your birthday. Sorry." Even as you are hearing the words
you get the creeped out sensation that they really do NOT mean they are
sorry at all - but since they’ve said the words you’re pretty much left
with nothing more to say. Either that or you suddenly find yourself
babysitting their angst!! Under all circumstances if you feel
this angle is being played - don’t capitulate! Do not care take - do
not accept an apology that feels like bullshit. If it feels like
bullshit - it probably is. Rule number one - if dealing with an
emotional blackmailer TRUST your gut. TRUST your senses. Once an
emotional manipulator finds a successful maneuver - it’s added to their
hit list and you’ll be fed a steady diet of this shit.
- An emotional manipulator is the picture of a willing helper. If you ask them to do something they will almost always agree - that is
IF they didn’t volunteer to do it first. Then when you say, "ok thanks"
- they make a bunch of heavy sighs, or other non verbal signs that let
you know they don’t really want to do whatever said thing
happens to be. When you tell them it doesn’t seem like they want to do
whatever - they will turn it around and try to make it seem like OF
COURSE they wanted to and how unreasonable you are. This is a form of
crazy making - which is something emotional manipulators are very good
at. Rule number two - If an emotional manipulator said YES - make them
accountable for it. Do NOT buy into the sighs and subtleties - if they
don’t want to do it - make them tell you it up front - or just put on
the walk-man headphones and run a bath and leave them to their theater.
- Crazy making - saying one thing and later assuring you they did not say it.If
you find yourself in a relationship where you figure you should start
keeping a log of what’s been said because you are beginning to question
your own sanity --You are experiencing emotional manipulation. An
emotional manipulator is an expert in turning things around,
rationalizing, justifying and explaining things away. They can lie so
smoothly that you can sit looking at black and they’ll call it white -
and argue so persuasively that you begin to doubt your very senses.
Over a period of time this is so insidious and eroding it can literally
alter your sense of reality. WARNING: Emotional Manipulation is VERY
Dangerous! It is very disconcerting for an emotional manipulator if you
begin carrying a pad of paper and a pen and making notations during
conversations. Feel free to let them know you just are feeling so
"forgetful" these days that you want to record their words for
posterity’s sake. The damndest thing about this is that having to do
such a thing is a clear example for why you should be seriously
thinking about removing yourself from range in the first place. If
you’re toting a notebook to safeguard yourself - that ol’ bullshit
meter should be flashing steady by now!
- Guilt. Emotional manipulators are excellent guilt mongers. They can make you feel guilty for speaking up or not speaking up, for
being emotional or not being emotional enough, for giving and caring,
or for not giving and caring enough. Any thing is fair game and open to
guilt with an emotional manipulator. Emotional manipulators seldom
express their needs or desires openly - they get what they want through
emotional manipulation. Guilt is not the only form of this but it is a
potent one. Most of us are pretty conditioned to do whatever is
necessary to reduce our feelings of guilt. Another powerful emotion
that is used is sympathy. An emotional manipulator is a great victim.
They inspire a profound sense of needing to support, care for and
nurture. Emotional Manipulators seldom fight their own fights or do
their own dirty work. The crazy thing is that when you do it for them
(which they will never ask directly for), they may just turn around and
say they certainly didn’t want or expect you to do anything! Try to
make a point of not fighting other people’s battles, or doing their
dirty work for them. A great line is "I have every confidence in your
ability to work this out on your own" - check out the response and note
the bullshit meter once again.
- Emotional manipulators fight dirty. They don’t deal
with things directly. They will talk around behind your back and
eventually put others in the position of telling you what they would
not say themselves. They are passive aggressive, meaning they find
subtle ways of letting you know they are not happy little campers.
They’ll tell you what they think you want to hear and then do a bunch
of jerk off shit to undermine it. Example: "Of course I want you to go
back to school honey and you know I’ll support you." Then exam
night you are sitting at the table and poker buddies show up, the kids
are crying the t.v. blasting and the dog needs walking - all the while
"Sweetie" is sitting on their ass looking at you blankly. Dare you call
them on such behavior you are likely to hear, "well you can’t expect
life to just stop because you have an exam can you honey?" Cry, scream
or choke ‘em - only the last will have any long-term benefits and it’ll
probably wind your butt in jail.
- If you have a headache an emotional manipulator will have a brain tumor! No
matter what your situation is the emotional manipulator has probably
been there or is there now - but only ten times worse. It’s hard after
a period of time to feel emotionally connected to an emotional
manipulator because they have a way of de-railing conversations and
putting the spotlight back on themselves. If you call them on this
behavior they will likely become deeply wounded or very petulant and call you selfish - or claim that it is you who are always in the spotlight. The thing is that even tho you know this is not the
case you are left with the impossible task of proving it. Don’t bother
- TRUST your gut and walk away!
- Emotional manipulators somehow have the ability to impact the emotional climate of those around them. When an emotional manipulator is sad or angry the very room thrums with
it - it brings a deep instinctual response to find someway to equalize
the emotional climate and the quickest route is by making the emotional
manipulator feel better - fixing whatever is broken for them. Stick
with this type of loser for too long and you will be so enmeshed and
co-dependent you will forget you even have needs - let alone that you
have just as much right to have your needs met.
- Emotional manipulators have no sense of accountability. They take no responsibility for themselves or their behavior - it is always about what everyone else has "done to them". One of the easiest ways to spot an emotional manipulator is that
they often attempt to establish intimacy through the early sharing of
deeply personal information that is generally of the
"hook-you-in-and-make-you-sorry-for-me" variety. Initially you may
perceive this type of person as very sensitive, emotionally open and
maybe a little vulnerable. Believe me when I say that an emotional
manipulator is about as vulnerable as a rabid pit bull, and there will
always be a problem or a crisis to overcome.
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